How to flirt with a girl ? is that a question you ask yourself again and again and still you don’t know what to do.Then this article is specially for you, here you can find some interesting tips on how to flirt with a girl.

When we use the word flirt many people take it in a bad way. But not all types of flirting is bad. When you flirt with someone it is a real ice breaker but the thing you should keep in mind is that it shouldn’t appear cheap and vulgar.

Everyone likes healthy flirting. So, in this article, we will look at few of the techniques that you can use for flirting with a girl in a healthy way. It is considered, that, flirting is a thing for men only but since past few years girls have also started taking this first step and to be really honest guys are crazy about the girls who break the ice first.

There is a fear that keeps you inside a shell. This fear is the fear of rejection. You need to throw it away. First of all, you should think if a girl rejects you or in this case ignores you or doesn’t respond to your gesture what worst that can happen.

On the maximum you’ll be sad for few minutes then everything will be normal but if everything goes accordingly, then, you can make an evening out of it. Or who know maybe you can even find a partner.

Few tip and tricks on how to flirt nicely with a girl

Flirting With The Eyes

Flirting with a girl with the eyes is the purest and safest form of flirting. It is the first step that you have to – have to take. To be really honest it is very much fun and there is no fear of ending up embarrassed.

There is a formulae made by expert Love Guru’s. It says that it is safe to go and talk to a girl or a boy if you had an eye contact with that person for at least 3-5 seconds.

I won’t say that the above rule is compulsory but it is safer. You can even talk to a girl straight away but it is riskier that way. Anyhow it won’t be like you’ll die if she refuses to talk to you.

So, you had a good eye contact with a girl and you think she is interested. Now what to do? You go and talk but there are many ways in which you can start a conversation.

Look 

The way you look at a person makes a big difference. First thing, you should look at him/her straight into the eyes to the soul. This creates an aura in which only you and the person you are looking at resides but just doing this won’t be enough. Your eyes should be flirty. The question arises here is how to do it.

When you look, there should be smile on your face and in your eyes. Just try not to over do it.

Flirting can be very easily interpreted as harassment. So, be careful while doing it because no one wants to end up in jail.

Compliments

The easiest way in which you can flirt with a girl, is, by complimenting. First of all, compliments works well with everyone weather it’s a girl or a boy and no one would mind it. Just try not to be vulgar because it might work with some girl but most of them will be repelled by it.

There are few things about girls that you can admire without sounding offensive. You can compliment a girl on her eyes, wits, hairs, style, smile etc.

These are compliments universal and work most of the time. But use your own brain too. Like, there is a saying sell only those things that people will buy.

Pick Up Lines And One Liners

Your wits and presence of mind comes handy here. A one liner said at the right moment can be really very effective. But if you don’t have that quick brain then you should be ready with few one liners that you can deliver.

If you’ll search for one liners and pick up lines on the internet you’ll get thousands of results. Try to choose friendly pick up lines.

I’ll give you an example. You can say, “My friend said I can’t talk to the most beautiful girl in this bar. So, talk to me, let us prove him wrong.”

Name Game

  When you start talking to a girl the first thing you exchange with her is the name and this is something that will surely come up in any conversation you made with a stranger. So, you can try many things when the name comes up.

You can say that it is a beautiful name or you can ask the meaning of it. And if you know it already then you can impress her with your knowledge.

You can lie a bit too. Like, you can say your very good friend had the same name. You can search for one liners or make few one liners of your own that you can use when a girl tells you her name and throw it at the right moment.

Exchange Notes

One of the most creative way to flirt is by exchanging notes. For example you can tell a waiter to pass the note and if she is sitting right next to you then you can give it to her yourself.

Now what your note should say. It should be very simple. Like, a “hi” or “Hello”. Or it can also say you name and a question asking hers. If a conversations starts then you can use techniques given above.

Presence Of Mind

You should have some brain and knowledge for flirting. Like, if she has a book that you have read before, then, you can use it to start a conversation. If you are in a bar or a pub then you can offer her a drink.

There are many-many probabilities of scenario in which you can meet a girl and you have to be prepared for all. Here experience also counts. The more such encounters you had the stronger you become.

Talk To Her Friend

  It is a new and indirect way of flirting with a girl. Start talking to her friend but keep looking at her. Give her a smile but for sometime don’t involve her in the conversation. Just appreciate her about her beauty to her friend not to her directly but don’t talk to her straight away.

Talk to her friend about her in such a way, like, she is not even present there. Don’t ask her name directly from her.

Ask her friend or the one accompanying her about it? For ex. you can say, “What’s your friend’s name?” You can ask many things about her and if you play your card right, then slowly she will join conversation.

How to flirt with a girl – Any personal Help

These are some of the tried and tested techniques. I have tried to cover most of the methods that you can practice in order to flirt with a girl but if even now you have a query then you can post a question to us directly and we will be happy to answer your questions.

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